Breaking the Silence
By guest blogger Erik Eagle,
Brownsville Area High School student
This year as the president of the newly formed Brownsville Area
High School Gay Straight Alliance (GSA)*, I have had the honor of being the
student organizer for the Day of Silence. I managed to bring the Day of Silence
to my school despite opposition from the administration, which tried to
infringe upon our rights by forbidding us from using the school’s PA system to
explain the event and wearing T-shirts with messages about the Day of Silence. If
it were not for the help of the ACLU of Pennsylvania, their efforts to block us might
have been successful.
Brownsville Area High School students (from left) Daniel Boger Jr., Erik Eagle , Marissa Calvaresi, Katherine Diamond and Kimberly Kennedy. Photo courtesy of John F. Brothers/HeraldStandard.com |
Although the school made assurances that they would allow
the Day of Silence, when I sought pre-approval for these activities from the
administration, all of my requests were denied.
At the same time the school allowed another student organization to do
the exact same things for another event. It was only after receiving a letter from the ACLU-PA explaining our rights that the administration allowed us to
proceed.
The Day of Silence, recognized on April 20 this year, is a
student-led action that began 17 years ago at the University of Virginia. On
that day, students take a vow of silence to bring attention to the silence
faced by LGBTQ youth who are bullied; the students' silence is meant to echo
that silence. With 90% of LGBTQ students reporting being harassed and 30% of
LGBTQ students being physically accosted at school, this is a cause that is
intended to make schools a safer place for those students.
I personally have encountered students who have made
remarks such as "Why remain silent? Shouldn't you speak out against the
bullying?" or "Being silent never accomplished anything, the Day of
Silence is pointless." I respect these opinions, but at the same time I
feel that it is paramount to understand that the Day of Silence is not expected
to make immediate change. The point of the Day of Silence is to get people's
attention and to make them think about why the day of silence is necessary. By
grabbing people's attention in such a strange way, it piques their interest to
the point that someone who would brush off the subject of anti-LGBTQ bullying
will now want to engage you in a conversation about it. I have been told by
everyone who participated in our district that they saw this effect almost
immediately.
*Note: The GSA
itself was only recognized as a student organization and allowed to meet on
school grounds after the intervention of the ACLU of PA.
Labels: free speech, LGBT, students rights